遵守猫箱站规，理性发文：
收拾电脑时发现一张小萌的照片，这张可能是小萌来我家后的第一张照片吧，不知道为什么没有上传到CLOUD，也许是因为拍摄得不好没上传，大家目前所能看到的最久是小萌在我家第一次吃饭时的那系列，而这张是她在我家第一次看到床这个东西，而且不知道如何下去。
那天是2012年的7月6号
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萌的第一天
[粉色系]作者：admin 发布于：2015-6-28 9:19 Sunday -
《The Last》——Who What When Where Why
[粉色系]作者：admin 发布于：2014-8-25 19:48 Monday
“Who” I loved was a girl from college. I wasn’t exactly close to her but with some superficial facts and a few of interaction over semester, you know, like most guys fantasizing over a girl they barely know, I filled in the blanks like a fairy tale author. And she became into my head was probably more than the reality. She was a third-year sorority girl. Yeah. I was infatuated freshman. Sure. But several times we got to spend together outside the class it really allowed me to see she also had a good heart and a bright spirit. The only problem was, so did just about every other guy. And while she turned me down nicely, I swear, there were times when it seemed like the cliché sorority girl may have felt something for the typical awkward freshman.
“What” I loved was an old friend. But she was much more than just a friend. We met early in college and kept in touch with the years after. We saw each other grow and change and through multiple relationships. I saw her different boyfriends come and go. She was also there for every girlfriend and break up of mine. Personality, humor, taste, it was all there. Her and I were almost perfect. Only known wasn’t perfect was our timing. We were never single at the same time. What we loved about each other was never enough to leave who we were with. This is something we eventually have to face and accept. And we had to leave behind what we had.
“When” I loved was my first girlfriend in high school. It’s a bit unfair because she embodies a combination of both love and youth. The feeling of young love is unique and impossible to replace or replicate. Because we can only be that age once. High school was a time of innocence, discovery and adventure. We shared these three elements together in things like our first kiss, late night sneaking out, and matinee movies all of which now had become a nostalgic love, preserved in a time neither of us can touch but know it was there. Even though we were just kids there’s not a doubt in my mind that we were there. We were in love.
“Where” I loved was a girl I met in Los Angeles. I never intended to stay there that long. It was just a six-month internship after graduating. But it all changed when I met her. Soon a year had passed then somehow another year after that I couldn’t leave the city. I couldn’t leave her. Maybe it was my desire to be on my own or prove something to everyone back at home. But she helped me accomplished over there with a relationship reflected of the city we were in. A new energy and new experiences that really push me to mature more than anyone, or anywhere else. When people ask what city I love the most, I say, LA. The city where I love the most.
“Why” I loved was a close friend of mine who passed away. She told me after she was diagnosed that death was not what saddened her the most. But the fact that she never really felt like she had fallen in love, she wouldn’t get to have those emotions, good and bad, of being hurt and being held. After she passed, those words stuck with me the most, teaching me to see that one of the greatest gifts we have of being alive is the ability to give, receive and even lose love. There are so many like her whose lives end before having any of those experiences. What a waste if we don’t strive to love in our lives. She made me understand why. Why waste this life not loving?
You are the sixth. You are none of them. Because you are all of them.
You are who I love. The girl on the pedestal, the fantasy, the make-believe things that are actually true.
You are what I love. The depth, the inside jokes, the best friend.
You are when I love. A new history is being started with you. We are the young lovers our older selves will someday reminisce about.
You are where I love. Because I’d go anywhere just to be with you.
You are why I love. Because before you I didn’t truly understand what I was looking for. And now that we found each other, you’ve given my past, the future, meaning.
You are the sixth.
You are the last.
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这种夫妻相处方式我喜欢
[粉色系]作者：bluesky 发布于：2014-8-16 16:19 Saturday婚后，妻子还是和谈恋爱时一样，霸道蛮横不讲理。
这天夫妇俩本是说好一起去会朋友的，可走到半路妻子又不讲理地喝斥起老公来，老公平时都是言听计从的，可这次不知怎么，竟来了牛脾气，一扭头，他回家不去了，头一次把妻子丢在马路上，妻子当时气得眼泪都快流出来了，但不能认输，她只有赌气地单刀赴会了。
晚上十一点钟妻子回家，见房里灯都关了，心想老公是睡著了，便没有按铃，掏钥匙开门时，发现门上贴著纸条，上写：你必须向我道歉！妻子愤愤地想，我还没有找你算帐呢！
进屋后开灯关门，发现门后又贴著一纸条，上写：或者把我皮鞋擦亮也行。妻子骂道，呸！我给你擦个屁。
换鞋时发现，她的拖鞋上又有一个纸条，上写：呸，擦个屁！妻子感到好笑，她心想，要我道歉，我都要一个星期不理你了，你心里有数点好不好。
妻子去洗漱，口杯上又有一个纸条，上写：如果你不知道该怎样向我道歉的话，书桌上有提示。妻子急忙跑到书桌旁，只见桌上放著半页纸，正面写著：把背面的话对我大声念两遍就行了。
翻到背面，见上面贴著一张报纸上撕下来的广告，广告词是这样写的：做女人，每个月都几天心烦的日子 ......
妻子又想笑，他以为是我"好事"来了，心烦才对他发脾气的？干嘛不说我更年期到了，那样岂不是更好下台阶，可笑。妻子的气消了一多半。
洗漱完后，妻子上床，见老公扭头在一边睡著了，她也不理他，打开床头灯想看几页书再睡，这是她多年来的习惯。打开书，里面又有一个纸条，上写：我知道 你心里已经很难过了，你觉得对不住我，有点难过了就行，也不必自责了。其实我也该检讨，要不是我发现马路对面表哥他们正想看我的笑话，我是不会跟你作对的，男人嘛，除了在外人面前要点面子外，谁会没事跟自己老婆过不去呀。
妻子心里一阵发热，觉得自己是有点过分了，对不住老公，便双手抱著他的头，扳过脸来，却发现老公脸颊上还写著两个大字：亲我！
其实婚姻中的男人就该有 男人的样儿！和女人斤斤计较，当理不让的，婚姻终将会走向失败！这一段话非常有道理：男人们你们记着：你媳妇如果看重得是钱，她不会因为你做了她不满意的 事而生气！她如果看重的是感情，你给她足够的爱，她不会因为你没钱而瞧不起你！但如果钱和爱你都给不了，你还要她忍受你的臭脾气，坏习惯，还有你家人的那 些屁事！那对不起和你能过到头儿的只有神！ 最讨厌男的刚开始对女的好的不行, 慢慢的嫌东嫌西, 态度越来越恶劣, 你要疼不起, 从一开始你就别装！
我特别特别赞成这段话
女人的温柔是男人疼出来的，女人的哀怨是男人冷出来的，女人的快乐是男人暖出来的，女人的娇媚是男人惯出来的，女人的勤劳是男人夸出来的，一个正常理智的女人变成一个神经病似的泼妇也是男人逼出来的，爱她就疼她。。。
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情的流浪
[粉色系]作者：bluesky 发布于：2014-7-5 7:30 Saturday你說
喜歡我的唇
於是我留了吻
在你每天醒來的早晨你說
喜歡跟我一起夢
一同走過青春
一同跨越
飄渺無垠的星辰無論四季
如何傳說
如何緣份
心 未曾有過的悔恨我為你
剪了 海洋的傷
引了 風的方向
許了 流星般的願望我將思念的月
掛在夜的身旁
願你 只願你
從此不再孤獨的流浪 -
少年夫妻老来伴
[粉色系]作者：bluesky 发布于：2014-5-18 13:43 Sunday作者：顾长安
人人都说，少年夫妻老来伴。二十一岁头上我们相遇，似水流年了这十几年。
回过头去才恍然，那些年少时候的争吵、冷战、悲痛、伤害，都是为了老来时可以用来怀念。那些单薄的细碎，都是未来的丰盛路上，人不能觉察的考验。
你在面前，我能看见岁月刻过的痕迹；你不在面前，我想起的你，就是梧桐树下，四季都穿着拖鞋的少年。就好像我们一同只在镜子衰老，眼睛里的彼此还只是从前的模样。我们怀念的...
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【母亲节专文】我小时候并不爱我妈
[粉色系]作者：bluesky 发布于：2014-5-10 19:41 Saturday今天的垃圾评论太多了，删得我直到手软，算啦算啦，转载一篇博文代替我手打好了。
海阔凭鱼跃，天高任鸟飞，这本来就是自然的法则，但可惜因为有那么一张网，网住了近十三亿人的翅膀与畅想，可又有一句：身正不怕影子斜，脚正不会怕鞋歪。做人必须心要正，要懂得尊法守律，那么也是我的做人和做站的原则，请网管大大手下留情！
转载天婴姐姐的博文：
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情是否遗忘
[粉色系]作者：bluesky 发布于：2014-1-20 8:23 Monday暮色是天空的情人
蓝色是海洋的情深
不变的永恒
映着不褪色的一生
我在岁月里游荡
想剪一段伤痕埋葬
随风也随浪
无梦是我的行囊
回忆是我的沙滩
海鸥在天际飞翔
心灵在思念中神伤
看不见的忧郁啊
模糊了今晚的月光
听得到的旋律
触动了泪雨心房
想你是我难解的彷徨
念你是我愿意的负担
苦了一场
红了眼眶
是否就此将你遗忘
遗忘…… -
情的我們
[粉色系]作者：bluesky 发布于：2014-1-14 19:09 Tuesday我的愛
沒有永恆
只有淡淡對你的真
我的愛
沒有恒溫
只有些許浪漫溫存
雨的天有些冷
但減不去我想念你的深
你說有顆愛我的心
所以我把它藏在了靈魂
我說很喜歡你的唇
所以愛上了你熱情的吻
我的愛
沒有黃昏
只有對你的奮不顧身
情感路上的我們
悄悄為你留了扇幸福的門 -
不要把愛說的太快
[粉色系]作者：bluesky 发布于：2014-1-12 12:10 Sunday親 不要把愛說的太快
等她年紀大了
你還是願意背著她看風景
逛街 看病 不嫌煩
你再來大聲說你愛她
不要說你要給她多少幸福
等到她 走不動了 看不見了
你依然不離不棄陪在她身邊
你再來說
你可以給她一輩子的幸福
如果夫妻到老 依然步伐相隨
就算皺紋滿臉
笑容卻是最真
最令人動容與羨慕
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2014-1-8 無題
[粉色系]作者：bluesky 发布于：2014-1-8 11:11 Wednesday昨晚在金光折騰空間，因為需要用QQ這個早已離我遠去的東西，看到你在綫，但你也沒扣我，我也沒聯你。
呵呵，沒聯繫已好久了，當初不該與你那麼近，以至於我到現在都沒辦法適應與你突然的距離。曾經也不該與你那麼好，.....以至於我們不好的時候我也會如此不好。雖然你從我的生活中消失了，可我還是想知道你的一切，不聯繫不代表不思念，沒見面不等於不關心，現在的你，過得還好嗎？有沒有那一瞬間，你也曾想起我？……
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